Sunday, October 3, 2021

 

TWENTY-SEVENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME

3 OCOTBER 2021

 

            The Pharisees know from the Book of Deuteronomy that Moses permitted a husband to write a bill of divorce against his wife.  However, they are trying to draw Jesus into the political debate of the day.  The followers of Rabbi Shammai strictly interpret the situations that allow a husband to write a bill of divorce.  They argue that only infidelity would be an acceptable reason.  However, the followers of Rabbi Hillel are much more lenient.  They allow the husband to write that bill for any reason, including the bad cooking of his wife.

            Jesus refuses to be drawn into that argument.  He points out that Moses did not give a formal law about divorce.  Rather, he permitted divorce as a concession to human weakness.  Jesus also understands the unfairness of this concession.  The wife has absolutely no say in this process.  It is the right of the husband alone.  Jesus insists that God’s intentions for marriage have their roots in creation.  We heard that in the reading from the Book of Genesis.  In God’s creation, a man and woman leave their parents and are joined as one.  Not only are they joined as one in the physical act of making love.  But that union is a new existence shared by couples in an unbreakable covenant.  No human being has the power to separate that bond.

            When his disciples gather privately in the house, they question his tough teaching.  Jesus is initiating a new reign of God in which he will restore the harmony of the Garden of Eden.  He sees divorce as a profound spiritual, mental, and psychological tearing apart of one flesh.  He invites his listeners to have the simplicity of a child.  This teaching can be accepted only with simplicity and trust.

            In our teaching, we Catholics are faithful to this difficult teaching when we insist that a valid marriage can be ended only by death.  We regard divorce as a legal decree, but it does not end a valid marriage.  The Church has made accommodations to human weakness.  Those who question whether their marriage was really valid in the first place can apply for an annulment.  Father Jake Runyon, the Judicial Vicar of the Diocese, will give a presentation on this subject on Tuesday evening, October 19.  If you are divorced, please consider coming to this informational session.  We also provide a ministry to those people who are divorced or separated.  We also encourage anyone who has been wounded in any way to seek therapy. 

            Instead of making judgments, we continue to hold high the teachings of Jesus on the sanctity of marriage.  We work as a team to prepare couples for marriage.  We encourage married couples to embrace the crosses and difficulties involved in keeping their marriages healthy.  Deacon Lou and Lori Giovannini offer their sessions “Marriage in Christ,” and we continue to develop programs to assist married couples to live their vocations.

            This teaching on marriage by Jesus spells out the implications of discipleship for daily living.  During this month of October, we focus on the implications of recognizing all life as a precious gift from God.  In a throwaway culture driven by a sense of consuming as much as possible, we accept the challenge of recognizing the sanctity of the unborn and the need to care for the elderly.  We accept the challenge of rooting out any form of racism or hatred of the immigrant.  We must see the image of Christ in the poor, the vulnerable, and those shoved to the edges of our society.

            Jesus makes great demands of us, who claim to be intentional disciples.  Together, during this month of October, we are given many specific opportunities to embrace the sanctity of the Sacrament of Matrimony and to respect the dignity of human life from the moment of conception through natural death.   

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